whomever posted the comment on my blog last go around...(and i have ideas)...
you win. i'm done.
5 comments:
Anonymous
said...
Seriously sorry if the words were hurtful. Not the intent at all even if it seemed like it.
A lot of people do care about you...and at times the stuff you post makes it seem like no one does. Which is frustrating.
You are a good guy and deserve good things, but I honestly don't think you will get there if you keep surrounding yourself with people that enable your pity.
While I disagree with anonymous commenting, I have to agree with a lot of what this person is saying. Your posts don't frustrate me but they do make me sad sometimes because I think surely you have wonderful things in your life one which you can focus.
Positivity begets positivity. I understand you're hurting; you know I am also going through a break-up. And it's good to vent and to get your thoughts out and the way your express yourself through your blog is good.
I just worry you are getting too entrenched in the negative. Think of something simple that makes you happy and focus on that.
I hope I haven't been unkind in this post. I just want you to be happy, sir.
i started this blog 4 years ago...just to give me something to do. somewhere to write. WHAT i write, sometimes isn't my personal feelings about such. sometimes it's just that...writing.
a few times (which..honestly, if you want the truth...since i've started blogging...this has all be fiction) in the past i've posted personal thoughts/feelings about life. a good portion of this is late night banter that comes to my head.
that being said:
anonymous...it's alright to post your thoughts and feelings about things. that's why we call this a blog. that's why i started this...to share and recieve input on things. did i think the first comment was harsh? hell yeah...but i'm over it and i understand where you were coming from. thank you for the honesty.
leedy:
i knew it was you. i always can pinpoint your writing. and i can see where a lot of my post are negative. i'll do my best to try to change all of that. you know me...the real me...and know that i'm not this person who yearns for self assurance from others. that i am who i am. and i hope that i can show that to all, and you. you said nothing of hurtfulness. i promise.
bests:
i can assure you even though we haven't communicated much...i'm hanging out with more positive people. and i'm doing my best.
granted guys...my ex-fiance left me three months ago. i'm doing better than what most see. i promise.
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5 comments:
Seriously sorry if the words were hurtful. Not the intent at all even if it seemed like it.
A lot of people do care about you...and at times the stuff you post makes it seem like no one does. Which is frustrating.
You are a good guy and deserve good things, but I honestly don't think you will get there if you keep surrounding yourself with people that enable your pity.
Be awesome. That's all that matters.
While I disagree with anonymous commenting, I have to agree with a lot of what this person is saying. Your posts don't frustrate me but they do make me sad sometimes because I think surely you have wonderful things in your life one which you can focus.
Positivity begets positivity. I understand you're hurting; you know I am also going through a break-up. And it's good to vent and to get your thoughts out and the way your express yourself through your blog is good.
I just worry you are getting too entrenched in the negative. Think of something simple that makes you happy and focus on that.
I hope I haven't been unkind in this post. I just want you to be happy, sir.
Hearts,
Leedy
(I will sign my name to my comments. Promise.)
Wow. Serious stuff going down here. I agree with Leedy.
Let that positive in your life.
Don't let people bring you down (anonymous or real) and just as importantly don't let them keep you down.
Hang out with your positive buddies and get away from people that insist you need coddling.
Be strong with you and be with strong supporters!
ok...cause it needs warranting:
i started this blog 4 years ago...just to give me something to do. somewhere to write. WHAT i write, sometimes isn't my personal feelings about such. sometimes it's just that...writing.
a few times (which..honestly, if you want the truth...since i've started blogging...this has all be fiction) in the past i've posted personal thoughts/feelings about life. a good portion of this is late night banter that comes to my head.
that being said:
anonymous...it's alright to post your thoughts and feelings about things. that's why we call this a blog. that's why i started this...to share and recieve input on things. did i think the first comment was harsh? hell yeah...but i'm over it and i understand where you were coming from. thank you for the honesty.
leedy:
i knew it was you. i always can pinpoint your writing. and i can see where a lot of my post are negative. i'll do my best to try to change all of that. you know me...the real me...and know that i'm not this person who yearns for self assurance from others. that i am who i am. and i hope that i can show that to all, and you. you said nothing of hurtfulness. i promise.
bests:
i can assure you even though we haven't communicated much...i'm hanging out with more positive people. and i'm doing my best.
granted guys...my ex-fiance left me three months ago. i'm doing better than what most see. i promise.
Glad you are doing well.
I always say... someone pissing you off or making you down, be done with them. No use keeping negative people around.
Even though life sucks, dwelling makes it harder. Life's too short to let the bad shit dominate your mood.
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